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the life in our hands: joining in twelve causes for christmas

I hope for more than I can breath for them; I long for than can be spoken. If I could give everything in one quick motion to know that it would be better, could be better, I would. It would be the easiest sort of gift. (I wonder, sometimes, if this is a heart of grace or just a fierce sense of individuality; either way, I suppose, Holy Ghost works it for the best.)

Do I speak of one particular ministry or one charity alone? No. For I look at each place that I could give to, each empty bowl I could fill, and I long to be that mercy and that grace. I wish I could do more than I could even begin to dream. And friends, I dream big.

So this past week, we have taken a step back as bloggers and have come together in a united voice to place before you, our wonderful readers, several different charities and relief organizations, each and every one worthy of your time and tithe, should you feel moved to give.

We make no play here as to which is best, advocate none above another. We simply present you with our individual passions, collected together, for you to share as you are moved. Continue Reading…

in media res: a blog conversation part III

 

We come to the close of this little blog series, wandering and roving through the fields of wonder. “We all — in the end — die in medias res. In the middle of a story. Of many stories.” I mentioned it through fiction, David wove in strands of narrative nonfiction, and now Stephanie shares in reflection by a poetic all her own. Join our conversation over at her blog today.

We all are born into the middle of a story, infants hurled howling into a plotline and expected, like a cat, to land on our feet.

It is in life as in literature: the reader is thrown into the middle of the story to engage our immediate interest and stir our curiosity, in what is called in media res—Latin for “into the midst of things.”  In media res is The Odyssey, the opening scene of which reveals Odysseus captive on Calypso Island, and then backtracks to the beginning of his journey, circling back to this event in chronological order. It’s Paradise Lost, the epic which unfolds out of a fallen angel’s monologue in the lake of fire at the end of the world. It’s William Faulkner’s The Sound and the Fury, which startlingly begins, “Through the fence, between the curling flower spaces, I could see them hitting.” 17 syllables, and we are hooked.

In writing, in media res is refined literary technique. In living, it is often brute survival.

Keep reading at Stephanie’s blog, here.

in media res: a blog conversation part II

 

 

 

 

We continue the series begun yesterday, with David, Stephanie, and myself.

Yesterday, I shared fiction, today, David reflects with haunting narrative nonfiction, as Stephanie so well described it, “A true story of dying in media res, and how the living can provide the last chapter of an unfinished story.”

Let David words wrap you up …

He went there every fall, with his dog, to a little garage in the mountains. Around it was a plot of land with young pine trees. He would go out every morning to check on all the saplings, make sure they were supported, growing up. It’s where he went to reflect, and while he wandered between the trees, the dog would run and play in the fields.

He was divorced, and he loved that dog. But one year, she got sick, and he had to take her for emergency care in the town. But she couldn’t be helped. The dog died abruptly. And the death pushed him over the edge.

He left the forest and drove home, “worse than a drunk,” he described it. When he got home, he took a bottle of pills from his bathroom, swallowed most of them—then right before it killed him, he called for help. He couldn’t do it. He wasn’t ready for his story to end.

After two weeks of intense treatment, he got put on medication. Something for his depression, something else for anxiety. He had a bad thyroid, and his emotions would fluctuate more than most people.

But he started to stabilize, and after a while, he decided to simplify his life and move on: sell some things, give away money, volunteer for a local politician. He even started going to church, and after two years of that, he decided that he was going to be a missionary.

Keep reading this beautiful work over at David’s blog, here.

buy me lots of presents for my birthday?

Greetings from rainy England!

On September 4th, I will be turning 22. Over the course of my life I have had some pretty fantastic and amazing birthdays and have been given some incredible presents. (Last year was particularly special, for reasons I cannot quite fully explain except to say that I have found my tribe and I was given an icon I keep near either literally or digitally all the time.)

But this year, I would like to do something a bit different. I want you to buy me lots and lots of presents for my birthday, but I want you to give them all away.

There are two places you can give to or both and both would be really cool. One is pretty awesome, too. Just give. Please.

The first:

Max and Lauren are getting married.

I mean, if you have read my blog just a few times, I think you know that. Their story is too beautiful to gloss over and their lives leave trails of mercy and glory in their wake. So I want to help them stop living out of a car.

One of the gifts you can buy me for my birthday is to go to their wedding registries and buy them wedding presents

Beautiful stories that God sings into being deserve our support, and I can’t think of anyone else who has a better story or tells a better story than Lauren and Max.

The second:

You can also give from the fullness of your table to the table of someone in need. Charity: Water helps set up pumps around the world to provide fresh drinking water to those who do not have access, who are infirm, sick, or without means to collect for themselves.

Why them? I was recently at a screening of charity promoting films and shorts in Austin. Charity Water aired a beautiful short about how each year in September, they focus in on a particular group or tribe to try and bring the entire area clean water. They asked that people consider giving up their birthdays if they were born in September. Who was born in September? This guy.

Last year, Charity Water is looking to bring clean water to the Bayaka tribe in Central African Republic. You can read their story here. 100% of what you give goes directly to the people who need it and the financial reports released by Charity Water have shown a consistent, selfless nature of giving.

I am looking to raise only $500 by September 30th, which would provide water to 25 people.

If fifty people donate just ten dollars, we would be there instantly. You can find my campaign and donate here.

So, it’s my birthday September 4th. Buy me lots and lots and lots of presents?

how to reject (and how not to reject) a man: guest post for ally spotts

Today I have the rare honor of guest posting over at Ally Spott’s amazing blog. Ally read a handful of my posts a few weeks ago and asked if I would consider writing something for her about how a man would like to be respectfully rejected by a woman. My awkwardness and I were more than happy to oblige. Here’s a teaser, then pop over to Ally’s blog today to see the full story

In my twenty-one years, I have been rejected by a number of women.

It has never gone well.

Chernobyl had fewer casualties than some of these rejections.

One time a girl took off to her car like an Olympic runner who had been set on fire, while I had barely finished the phrase, “Go out somet—”

Another time a girl simply set our dinner table on fire, overturning a candle, preempting my ability to even broach the question. She could tell I was about to and she was prepared.

(I may have fabricated a few things here. Technically Chernobyl wasn’t as bad as people made it out to be.)

Continue reading this on Ally’s blog, here.

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